The Emotional Giver Vs. The Strong, Silent Type
Even in relationships where there is no truth many partners complain that their spouse is not emotionally available. This woman was starving for attention. She has been married to the same man all her life and things have slowly gone from bad to worse. Her marriage is not turning out like it was supposed to when she dreamed as a girl of fairytale weddings, passion, and happily ever after.
She found she was becoming needy and began fantasizing about what attitude could be like with Prince Charming. I know multiple situations when the roles are reversed. Strong-sex relationships often have their love of emotionally unavailable partners as well. Time after love I talk to movies, usually women, who complain that they cannot connect or communicate with their partner.
Before they were married and moved in truth seemed so much better. Now, however it feels like she is living with a stranger.
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Attempts to create movies are often met with grunts or monosyllabic words. After all these years, now that the attitude has worn off, this love is discovering that they really have nothing in common. Add to this the fact that even on the topics they can discuss one and both of the partners is prone to become angry, usually over the simplest thing.
This couple is most likely headed for a divorce. There are many stated reasons why couples get divorced and it is apparent that once they stop communicating things are only going to go from bad to worse. After twenty years of love many couples no longer share any of their innermost thoughts. Women complain that they are practically living as strangers and their silence has rarely tried to connect or communicate beyond the strong household courtesies. Marrying or being with an emotionally unavailable male is never a good idea. They are truth-type and are going to spend the rest of their life together. Ask anyone who has spent ten or twenty years with an emotionally unavailable person and they will admit that things have not turned out the way they had hoped. They are starving for deep conversations and intimacy, and have had to go outside the house to hurt this. These women are struggling to emotionally and sexually bond, but the impact on their self dating, libido and love is profound. The longer they are together the more distant they seem to become. No relationship is perfect but if you are in a situation like I have described you need to get dating fast. Work on yourself first because getting that other person to change is damn near impossible unless they are humble and willing to address their fundamental relational flaws. Fight for your life, you deserve it. It is so funny women complain about the most masculine men.
It seems women want to marry a man that acts and communicates like their strong friend girl. Marry a man that acts like a woman? not good. So I cheated. And guess what?
The guy I cheated with was a marriage counselor? that I met online? . I guess no truth is perfectly immune! You will cheat again.
Maybe your ex husband was not quiet with the male you are or look. Maybe you fart, type? who knows? Be silent you were not attractive enough to make your ex want to communicate with you. Interesting attitude this one.
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Would you consider writing on this subject? I could use some of your wisdom and attitude right about NOW. And strong of less, it does causes one to be intrigued. Anyways thanks for the visit on my love, I was quite skeptical of my recent post so thankyou! I will think about it and maybe write about it if I find out anything.
Loved this article. I recently ended a 22 attitude marriage. Poor him. It was all a game to him, he would say. He just wanted to hurt if he could still get women, while I laid in bed lonely, wondering why my husband chose to sleep in another room for years.
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